Tuesday, September 13, 2011

A memorable experience of beauty






"Beauty is not in the face; Beauty is a light in the heart."Do you agree? Yes, I do! Frankly ,a new born child is the most perfect species because they haven’t contact or get influence from environment. Their thoughts are unique, uncomplicated.Consequently, their hearts also purity...and beautiful!!! As we know, nobody is perfect. There has some similar quotation as above. For instance, “People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.” from Elisabeth Kubler-Ross. I’m agreeing from those quotation It is too difficult to identify someone who treat us sincerely or fake .It takes much times to know someone well .We must observe them instead judge their behaviours and characters quickly just within 3 seconds,3minutes or even few days.





What should we do to improve our beauty in our daily life? True beauty comes from within. It is bursting with a wealth of wisdom from the word of GOD! GOD is love! I understand more each day why the Lord tells us to “hide it in our hearts, so we might not sin against Him...Only God can see into our hearts! It is also from the depth of the heart that a wellspring of love and truth come forth.

God Is Love
I have one alike experience because of my sister. My sister, 16 years old is an active, intelligent and talkative girl. However, she always focuses on others appearances which prefer handsome guy. Handsome guy only will become her target to be her boyfriend.
Four months ago, one of my sister’s friends recommended to my sister a cool and stylish guy. His name is Wei Jie who studied distinct school with my sister .Initially, my sister fell in love to him surreptitiously .She told me what was her feeling to that guy .Yet, I was advised her not be too close with him since I heard my friends told me he was a coxcomb guy .She seems like agreed me but her heart to that man obsessed. She asked me a conservative with this secret; do not let our parents found out as much as possible. I agreed her reluctantly.Suprisingly; they were dating after few days. As an eldest sister, I did not know what was the right solution solved this problem. Should I tell my parents what was really going on on my sister or just camouflage of innocent?

My sister came back home with a charming and happy look all day.
She often shared with me about the man who was gracefully, connotations characters. She does not mind that he has almost hundreds of ex-girlfriends. She just enjoyed every minute of her time with him. I have only giving a faint smile, silently blessing she will have a happy ending with Wei Jie.Indeed, those guy proposed to break up the relationship with my sister after one week gave the excuse of he still did not fit about one of his ex-girlfriend. My sister pretended she was fine accepted it. When she was back to home, she failed to withstand against her feeling. anymore.She cried about whole night and refused to take any meal and drinks. I would only comfort her in her side. I could understand how much pain of my sister was undergoing in that moment. Since that incident, my sister began to realise appearance is not important for someone instead a person's heart is the most rare. I’m so glad have been observed my sister was forgotten those guy gradually. In a conclusion, we should not judge someone rushly just like a phrase of “don’t judge the book by its cover”.




















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